The Ultimate Playlist for Writing a Steamy, Angsty Romance

Music has a way of setting the mood like nothing else. Whether it’s the slow build of tension, the pulse-pounding heat of desire, or the ache of longing, the right song can take a scene to the next level. When I’m writing a romance packed with chemistry, angst, and spice, my playlist becomes just as important as the words on the page.

If you’re a reader who loves getting lost in the emotions of a book—or a fellow writer looking for inspiration—here’s the ultimate playlist for crafting (or experiencing) a steamy, angsty romance.

🔥 Slow-Burn Tension: The Songs for When They Can’t Stop Thinking About Each Other

Before the characters finally give in, there’s that delicious build-up—the stolen glances, the lingering touches, the undeniable pull. These songs capture that anticipation perfectly:

• Take Me to Church – Hozier
• Wicked Game – Chris Isaak
• Like Real People Do – Hozier
• Into You – Ariana Grande
• Love Me Like You Do – Ellie Goulding

🔥 Explosive Passion: The Perfect Tracks for Writing Spice

When tension finally snaps, and things heat up, these songs bring the intensity and chemistry:

• Earned It – The Weeknd
• Animals – Maroon 5
• Freak Me – Silk
• All The Time – Jeremih
• No Ordinary Love – Sade

🔥 Angsty Heartbreak: When Love Hurts (Before the HEA)

Some of the most unforgettable moments in romance are the ones that break your heart. These songs channel that raw emotion:

• Iris – Goo Goo Dolls
• All I Want – Kodaline
• Say You Love Me – Jessie Ware
• Someone Like You – Adele
• Unsteady – X Ambassadors

🔥 Feel-Good Love: The Moments That Make Readers Swoon

After the tension, the heartbreak, and the longing, love always wins. These songs capture the moment when characters finally realize they’re meant to be:

• You Are the Best Thing – Ray LaMontagne
• Beyond – Leon Bridges
• Die a Happy Man – Thomas Rhett
• Can’t Help Falling in Love – Haley Reinhart (cover)
• Adore You – Harry Styles

Bonus: A Scene Inspired by Music

I love writing with music in the background, and certain songs influence the way a scene unfolds. One of my recent favorites? [Include a small teaser from a spicy or emotional moment in one of your books, mentioning which song inspired it.]

Whether you’re a reader who loves a good book soundtrack or a writer looking for the perfect background music, I hope this playlist fuels your next obsession.

What songs make you feel something when reading or writing romance? Drop your favorites in the comments!